Friday, December 05, 2008

This year our household is approaching Christmas a bit different. Priorities have shifted. In years past Christmas was a huge deal. Present wise that is. The kids (and us too) received so much stuff. From each other. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins. We bought things just to have presents under the tree. Not this year. Not only is our budget different than years past, our mind-set is different.

Instead of buying gifts for each other, my brothers and their families, all agreed to pool our money to give to an organization. We haven't exactly decided who we're going to give to, but the money will be much more useful for someone else who needs it than stuff for ourselves. Yes, the kids will get some presents, but it'll be waaaaay scaled back, more practical and meaningful. Less stuff. More meaning.

I explained this to the kids, and I know it will be revisited again some more before Christmas. We have SO much. SO MUCH! We don't NEED anything. I know I said this in the Thanksgiving post, but it has become so apparent I think it's worth repeating. With purging throughout the last year, it has become so very clear that we can live without so much. And not miss any of it. I think they are starting to understand that there are so many kids that don't have anything and we can help them! Not just with buying them toys, but food and shelter and clothes! And isn't that what Christ followers are supposed to do?

So we're switching consumerism gears around our house this year. More focus on Christ, Advent, others rather than stuff and our wants. It has actually been freeing and humbling and what a great example to our kids to be able to live out Christ to others.

7 comments:

Hillary said...

Fabulous! I often think the same thing with my fam. We've stopped gifts (more or less) with my mom's extended family (though we haven't replaced it with anything, which also seems like kind of a cop-out), but we could probably do more within my own family.

Your kids have such good hearts - I'm looking forward to stories of how they act on your new Christmas plan! :)

Luanne said...

That is an amazing change!! I totally know what you mean about having SO MUCH!! I feel that every day. And the more we help people the more it becomes evident just how spoiled we are!!! Good for you Jean! You are a great example of what a Christ follower should look like :)

anne said...

I'm so glad you guys are doing this! I've been thinking about wants for Christmas and have come up with nothing. I mean really, there are tons of things I could have and use, but I don't really want anything and definitely don't NEED anything. Except maybe a new toothbrush. :)

Jean said...

I think it'll be a great experience for them. :)

You're so right Luanne. When we help out people it really is an eye opening experience.

I did the same thing this year too Anne. I thought and thought and realized I really don't need anything and there is a lot that I would LIKE, but in reality, I really don't need it. :) Now a toothbrush...that's another matter. :)

Cheeky said...

what charity was chosen for the pool of $ to be given to?

Jean said...
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Jean said...

We went through Partner's International.